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Aite im keeping this clean i need to get it out tho. Today the latex based product from walmark made by a durable company fell off and i didnt notice it missing till after a adult activity. Chemicals of a certain nature were everywhere and she hasnt been on a medication you take orally to prevent pregnancy long enough for it to be effective.
I'm 18, jobless, and terrified. Just have to talk bout this.
Abort!!!!
How dangerous is this chemical? Is it flammable? Corrosive? Poisonous? I think you should call poison control.
On a side note: How long ago was it? Go to the hospital and get some of those free pills (in Canada at least...) that cause the egg to self-destruct.
There are a number of so called "morning after" pills available for this kind of situation. I don't know where you'd get them in the US, but they are available from ordinary doctors here.
This was just today. There was some in the rubby and alot, ALOT on the bed....were going to give it a few days and see what happens i think, its probably not going to go anywhere im jus nervous.
Don't have her wait to take the mourning after pills. I think they work for a max of two weeks after the possible pregnancy. But it's better to take them now than later.
Anyways, if you do get her pregnant, say goodbye to a big part of your future.
Armed with a pair of rubber gloves and a guide to the female anatomy, one could potentially perform the abortion while watching the football game.
How dangerous are these pills....
They're not dangerous at all. Infact I usually put a handful of them in my cereal every morning.Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
How dangerous are these pills....
Note that most of them are only good for around 72 hours after the "pregnancy". Side effects include nausea, vomiting and tender breasts :D (not joking either)
I do not believe they are any more dangerous than the normal hormone based contraceptive pills They are frequently given to rape victims.
Google around, there's sure to be some resources out there. From memory, they use a class of hormones called "prostaglandins" if that helps.
I know you aren't sure if she's pregnant, but pills are far less dangerous than an abortion.Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
How dangerous are these pills....
Anyways, my step-brother got her girlfriend pregnant, and now they're going through the whole abortion process. I'd avoid that at any cost.
they do have side affects. the longer you wait the less effective they are. talk to a doctor.Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
How dangerous are these pills....
This is obviously a really sensitive matter for a girl, how can i go about bringing this up? Thnx for the link, appreciate it.
She must know that a pregnancy in your combined circumstances would be a disaster, and is probably a bit worried about it herself. Doesn't she work in the health care line? She's probably way ahead of you.
... You mean she didn't notice in the first place? Edit: Damn, adrian is quick tonight :)Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
This is obviously a really sensitive matter for a girl, how can i go about bringing this up? Thnx for the link, appreciate it.
first bring up the possibility of a posative test result and ask her what she would want to do in that situation. if she doesnt faint/slap you/cry at the thought of an abortion, the pill would be a good suggestion. the pill is not an abortion but may cause moral issues similar to that of abortions. just tell her your trying to consider every possability when you bring it up.Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
This is obviously a really sensitive matter for a girl, how can i go about bringing this up? Thnx for the link, appreciate it.
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ectopic pregnancy-can be life threatening
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It is possible ... that a woman using ECPs could have one of the dangerous or even fatal complications that have been reported in very rare cases with normal, prolonged use of birth control pills. These include: thrombophlebitis (blood clots in the legs), lung clots, heart attack, stroke, liver damage, liver tumor, gallbladder disease, and high blood pressure
Im liking this less and less.Quote:
There are no long term studies to show whether women will be permanently damaged, or risk such diseases as cancer, from these chemicals being given in such high doses.
If you check up on the possible side effects on many commonly used drugs, you'd never take them.
"that have been reported in very rare cases"....
man u guys are quick. She just got her EMT certifications, yes. Were definitly going to talk bout it, kids are way down the line for me, and she just started college. Not to mention i want to be together for a long time and married first ya know. Im too young for a kid.
Good luck.
>>> Damn, adrian is quick tonight
Tonight? it's 6:50 AM here, and I'm going out now so the floor is yours!
From a psychological stand point:Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
This is obviously a really sensitive matter for a girl, how can i go about bringing this up? Thnx for the link, appreciate it.
1. I suggest buying her flowers.
2. Admit that you were wrong, and don't put any blame on her.
3. Tell her you want her to use the pill, with the fear that she may have to get an abortion (remember to compare the pill to the abortion, because it downplays the use of the pill).
4. Collect as much information as you can on the mourning after pill, and give her all the positive information that indicates why it's better to use the pill than to get an abortion.
5. Try to get her to persuade herself into taking the pill (people are more likely to do something if they think it's their own idea).
6. Empathize with her (empathize means to see things from the other person's perspective, with sympathy).
anyways, that's from a psychological stand point.
But I'd suggest talking to her about it ASAP!!!
yea tomorrow afternoon when i see her we will
two other points:
Don't argue with her over the situation!
and
Listen to her and don't interrupt!
Anyways, good luck with the situation.
Good luck!
Thanks alot guys, as usual your nothing but helpful.
Punch her in the face, and don't tell her until after you've chained her up in the kitchen, cookin' you a big steak.Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
Thanks alot guys, as usual your nothing but helpful.
well best of Luck to you ROD....
TO all Americans
*************
Some how your way of life and culture seems a bit odd to me( may be thats whay you think about us).... Here it is a social Taboo to have a girl friend... But times are changin... Guys do have GF's but never herd of it reachin a level other then smoochin and stuff......
No offence here..
I'm sure it's quite the opposite.....your culture is a bit odd to not have a girlfriend.Quote:
Originally posted by vasanth
well best of Luck to you ROD....
TO all Americans
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Some how your way of life and culture seems a bit odd to me( may be thats whay you think about us).... Here it is a social Taboo to have a girl friend... But times are changin... Guys do have GF's but never herd of it reachin a level other then smoochin and stuff......
No offence here..
Well, no sex before marriage probably is an anachronism in western civilizations.
RoD: Don't panic. Try adrianxws suggestions. I wouldn't worry about side effects. She might have to see a doctor about this pill anyway, s/he will tell her what the side effects are. If you take this seriously, I should have died from my prescription free cold medicin years ago.
So guys just have FWB? Or do they wait till marriage?Quote:
Originally posted by vasanth
TO all Americans
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Some how your way of life and culture seems a bit odd to me( may be thats whay you think about us).... Here it is a social Taboo to have a girl friend... But times are changin... Guys do have GF's but never herd of it reachin a level other then smoochin and stuff......
No offence here..
Dude, go to Planned Parenthood or the equivalent in your area. They'll be able to give you real answers and they've dealt with this many, many times before, I'm sure. All of our answers here are good, but we're not exactly qualified medical people.
That sucks.Quote:
Guys do have GF's but never herd of it reachin a level other then smoochin and stuff......
And I don't mean to troll a little, RoD, but if you're not ready for a kid, don't have sex... It can kinda be a consequence of the action.
I wouldn't go that far... (hell i don't want a kid right now!) just err be more carefull :)Quote:
And I don't mean to troll a little, RoD, but if you're not ready for a kid, don't have sex...
Yeah, I kinda thought about that after I posted. I mean, I'm probably not ready for a kid, but I sure as hell know that's a possibility. Not that RoD didn't know that's a possibility, but...
Ah, to hell with it. Just be a little more careful.
well 95% of the time it is all aranged marriage. But this trend is slowly changing and our elders call it westernization of our youth.. blah blah blah...Quote:
Originally posted by SourceCode
So guys just have FWB? Or do they wait till marriage?
You guys still do arranged marriages? Wow... Do they work?
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Originally posted by Govtcheez
You guys still do arranged marriages? Wow... Do they work?
yep.. some how they seem to work perfectly.. it is the love marriages that seems to be ending in gutters here.. May be due to the reason that most families here are joint families.. Usually after the marriage is fixed there is a year of time or sometin.. Time for people to get to know each other i guess.. but some communities it is just a week or so... Some how i feel that the concept of aranged marriage has to change..
That's interesting, thanks vasanth...
Seems like an antiquated thing that wouldn't work, but hey, I'm sitting in a country with a 50+% divorce rate. On the other hand, jsut because they stay together doesn't necessarily mean they're happy.
i completely agre with you.. not every one is happy after arranged marriage.. but the general trend is that they makeup.. and do spend quality time... But the rural sides are worst.. the wife being il treated etc etc...Quote:
Originally posted by Govtcheez
That's interesting, thanks vasanth...
Seems like an antiquated thing that wouldn't work, but hey, I'm sitting in a country with a 50+% divorce rate. On the other hand, jsut because they stay together doesn't necessarily mean they're happy.
Yeah heard stories from some Indian guy who lives in belgium for a year right now.Quote:
But the rural sides are worst.. the wife being il treated etc etc...
Isnt it that a women can be burned alive or something when she has done something wrong... i think this burn-alive-thing also had something to do with marriage ... or maybe it was this old Indian saga aah i forgot and its quite off-topic so ill just shut up for now.
I've heard some fairly awfull stories from my girlfriend (she comes from Pakistan, maybe the issues are different there)Quote:
i completely agre with you.. not every one is happy after arranged marriage.. but the general trend is that they makeup..
hmm well the burning stuff is called sati.. it was practised 50 years back when the wife was burnt along with the dead husband.. This was abolished by Raja Ram Mohan Roay with the help of the british long back... But it was found that it happened in recent years in a remote village.. After this all the villagers were punished by the government for being mute spectators by cutting all service to the village such as monthly ration, water, electricity etc... and all the ment who were at the ceremony were arrested. That village seem to have learnt its lesson now... But in Pakistan the situation is worse... where honour killing takes place...
But as a whole here.. in Urban areas.. many woman lead top notch companies and enterprises. .. so there are still things to be corrected.
> cutting all service to the village such as monthly ration, water, electricity etc...
Jesus Christ!
well everything is resumed now.... It was cut untill they all agreed that this will never take place in the village again...Quote:
Originally posted by Govtcheez
> cutting all service to the village such as monthly ration, water, electricity etc...
Jesus Christ!
Yeah, but still... What if they had never resumed? Would they just have cut the village off from the rest of the world? Seems kinda barbaric.
hmm.. but no other way to teach the villagers not to do it,, since it was a whole community which supported it.. cannot put the whole community behind bars..Quote:
Originally posted by Govtcheez
Yeah, but still... What if they had never resumed? Would they just have cut the village off from the rest of the world? Seems kinda barbaric.
So punish the people who actually did it. Jeez... I can't believe they'd cut off a village's water.
I can just imagine if thet hadn't given up
"Well, looks like that genocide taught those people!"
hahaha.Quote:
Originally posted by Govtcheez
"Well, looks like that genocide taught those people!"
hahahaha.
hahaha.
I'm being insensitive, but
hahahahaha
Crap RoD, its always something with you...good luck in this matter...
On a side comment all of Eibro's comments have made me laugh thouroghly, thanks Eibro. (I think he is drunk or high or some combination thereof)
//napKIN
Dude, that sucks. Try to get her on those pills. I mean abortion is like terrible, and if you can avoid it, try.
Good luck. My cousin had a baby when she was like 17, and she ended up having to drop out of high school. I think the dude she's married to is the father, but I'm not sure (she lives far away, so I don't know her well)
>> Today the latex based product from walmark made by a durable company fell off
Seems like you need to try using a latex based product that is smaller in size :D
Sorry couldn't help it. Hope everything works out for ya.
o haha cshot :P None of the other ones did that...
Next time rubber band it on :D. Then stitch it around the edge. After that, make her wear one as well.
Or just make her take it somewhere else?
Hahahha, no i've just been up for > 30 hours straight. Insomnia does some crazy things to you...Quote:
Originally posted by napkin111
Crap RoD, its always something with you...good luck in this matter...
On a side comment all of Eibro's comments have made me laugh thouroghly, thanks Eibro. (I think he is drunk or high or some combination thereof)
//napKIN
and use 2 condoms just to be safe.
I hope that was a joke. Using two condoms isn't nearly as safe.
After this maybe it would be an idea for her to go (back?) on the pill or something, it's just that added security.
Using 3 would be even better.Quote:
Originally posted by Brian
and use 2 condoms just to be safe.
My best friend's parents were in an arranged marriage.
Yeah, they don't even sleep in the same room most of the time. Nice people, though.
Well RoD, just talk to her about it soon. Call a hotline or somethign and ask about these pills.
The problem isn't with the condom, it's with his manhood. TheQuote:
Originally posted by Brian
and use 2 condoms just to be safe.
condom didn't break, it fell off (::giggle::)... Rod, you can't
be angry at Wal-Mart*, only at your weenie (pardon my language,
but it's true).
*Is that who made your condom? I've never heard of Walmark,
so I'll assume it was a typo and that you actually meant to write
Wal-Mart instead. Why would anybody buy a condom from a
company that has all their products manufactured in China? If
there's one thing you don't want manufactured in China, it's your
condom. A country of 1 billion can't be relied upon to manufacture
birth control products. They obviously haven't mastered the skill
of condom-making.
Then again, I don't know much about the condom business, so
maybe there is a company called WalMark that makes condoms.
Are there any man-skanks out there that can enlighten me? But
even if that's true, they must not have a good reputation; if they
did, I would have heard of them. They're probably a generic
condom manufacturer. Generic condoms...tsk, tsk. I've heard of
"Trojan", that's what you should have bought. They're successful
enough to advertise on non-cable television. People are buying
their products... for a reason.
Those bastards monopolized the condom market :(
Why not go the whole way and use 4?Quote:
Originally posted by Eibro
Using 3 would be even better.
You'll be a fort!
This whole board makes me laugh every time I check it! :DQuote:
Originally posted by -KEN-
Those bastards monopolized the condom market :(
I'm told that 2 condoms actually makes them more likely to break. I don't know from experience, really! It's that stupid health class they're making us take... Man I hate some of those lessons... *shudders*
two is worse than one. It was durex i bought it at walmart.
As for it falling off, its not unheard of. Anyway she had her monthly visiter today, never thought i'd be happy bout that.
The UPS guy?
> As for it falling off, its not unheard of.
Whatever, needledick :p
Very nicely put. I haven't used that word since I was like 6, but then again, you were trying to keep it clean, so I shouldn't be a weenie about it :DQuote:
only at your weenie
I've heard of Durex from friends. The stories I heard weren't good, so I wouldn't use them. I'm going to get a Trojan (when the time comes to spread my cream corn :D). I mean, you shouldn't go cheap on something like this, even the expensive stuff is pretty darn cheap, it's just a piece of lubricated latex.
I think for a piece of active health care, it's still pretty expensive. The government should somehow subsidize (sp?) it if it doesn't already.Quote:
I mean, you shouldn't go cheap on something like this, even the expensive stuff is pretty darn cheap, it's just a piece of lubricated latex.
> when the time comes to spread my cream corn
Let's make a deal. I'll stop puking if you never talk again, okay? :p
Last time I checked, Germany does not have a huge population problem. Why the heck should the government subsidize?
say wat u will govt dont be jealous i got u beat :P
You'd be crazy to go to trojan dude, all they do is break. Durex have never broken on me, and in months of use this was the first incident. A few people i know had this happen on other brands too..
> say wat u will govt dont be jealous i got u beat
All I know is that I've never had a condom fall off my wang.
Because pregnancy is probably the sexually transmitted something with the lowest mortality rate. Other sexually transmitted things are not as pleasant and not as life-giving.Quote:
Why the heck should the government subsidize?
Sidenote: never had any problems with Durex.
lmao, me either cept this one time. I'm just going to accept that this will follow me here for life and move on lolQuote:
Originally posted by Govtcheez
> say wat u will govt dont be jealous i got u beat
All I know is that I've never had a condom fall off my wang.
don't breathe that sigh of relief just yet!!Quote:
Originally posted by RoD
...she had her monthly visiter today, never thought i'd be happy bout that.
my sister-in-law kept menstruating for the first 4 months of her pregnancy, then it stopped. she didn't even know she was pregnant until she was in her well into her 6th month (she's tiny, and didn't gain much).
she should still get checked. or risk burdening the board with a bunch of little RoDs
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA - little RoD (add that with the condom falling) - AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
I think im gonna cry!
Where that flip-off FD smiley when u need it