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    Quote Originally Posted by Epy View Post
    Nominal, what do you do for a living?
    Eat, drink, and breathe?

    I am now trying to re-learn how to live, how to be a social human being. I've mentioned before that I'm a burned out husk of a man, and it's actually pretty accurate. Cognitive-behavioural therapy and regular large doses of various types of serotonin reuptake inhibitors help; I've even re-learned how to talk to strangers.

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    You seem to know a lot
    Nah, that's an illusion; I just have a lot of opinions and suggestions.

    I am literally addicted to problem solving, and have had this analytical approach to it since I learned to talk. Growing up in the Arctic (68.3°N), I was information-starved, and quickly learned how to pick up skills and integrate information, and how to observe and dissect problems. I've always hated learning by rote, and felt it is a total waste of effort -- the same goes for believing anything just because someone says so, no matter their "authority". Everything interesting has been discovered via questions, so believing something without questioning it feels just utterly worthless and stupid to me, on the visceral level. My family has always appreciated all work (typical non-urban Finnish attitude), and learning and doing whatever you do well, even if it was just shoveling dung. (Not a figure of speech: there are quite a few things you can do to make shoveling dung easier. Cow dung, in particular, is pretty good fertilizer, after it has been partially composted.)

    Combine all that with a bunch of weird coincidences and a couple of decades of practical experience as an "adult", and you get lots of practical opinions and sometimes useful suggestions.

    The downsides, starting from the genetics, up to deficiencies in social and communications skills, are a major issue. In particular, propagation of these downsides to another generation is definitely, completely out of the question. I wouldn't inflict these even to my worst enemy, and I happen to like kids.

    That is also why any condescending or patronizing or superior attitude in anything I write, is honestly a communications failure on my part. (It happens way too often to be something different.) I know for a fact, at the intuitive, visceral level, that I'm not superior in any way to anyone. I do call people idiots often, when they don't apply the analytical and rational skills they have, but it's more to do with disgust at people choosing not to think and apply their skills, rather than having anything to do with lack of ability or intelligence or skill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nominal Animal View Post
    I am literally addicted to problem solving, and have had this analytical approach to it since I learned to talk. Growing up in the Arctic (68.3°N), I was information-starved, and quickly learned how to pick up skills and integrate information, and how to observe and dissect problems. I've always hated learning by rote, and felt it is a total waste of effort -- the same goes for believing anything just because someone says so, no matter their "authority". Everything interesting has been discovered via questions, so believing something without questioning it feels just utterly worthless and stupid to me, on the visceral level.
    This is one of the remarkable traits among some great people and Feynman is known for it. As children we do NOT fear authority and ask questions when curious ("Emperor is NOT wearing any clothes"). But as we grow older, we are taught to fear authority (in most cultures) and we *lose* this ability to question authority.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nominal Animal View Post
    I've always hated learning by rote, and felt it is a total waste of effort -- the same goes for believing anything just because someone says so, no matter their "authority". Everything interesting has been discovered via questions, so believing something without questioning it feels just utterly worthless and stupid to me, on the visceral level.
    This essentially defines me too. I almost always question so-called "common knowledge" and authoritative knowledge mostly because it is intrinsic to me this urge to understand the underlying principles and not because I rebel against authority or wisdom. I not only despise the idea of conformism, but -- and this is probably an even greater distaste -- I abhor being fed up the nose with some idea, concept or principle without any attempt at explaining it to me the whys and the why nots.

    And some people cannot understand that questioning the validity of something generally accepted as true is a better way to understand the reasons behind that thing than just asking about them. By challenging the Truth with all sorts of obstacles and what ifs, we force its validation. But if we just ask why something is the way it is, we are not forcing its validation. We are simply asking for someone to write down the principles again -- which we already know all about. So it also annoys me greatly when someone gets all flustered up when someone else questions Truth.

    But I'm also usually always searching and investigating exceptions to the Rules. I feel these are the most valuable as not only a means to understand why a certain rule exist, but also how it should be properly applied. And this shows probably nowhere better than in our profession; I shouldn't use floats for mathematical calculations? Of course I can!

    Quote Originally Posted by Nominal Animal View Post
    The downsides, starting from the genetics, up to deficiencies in social and communications skills, are a major issue. In particular, propagation of these downsides to another generation is definitely, completely out of the question. I wouldn't inflict these even to my worst enemy, and I happen to like kids.
    The written word -- and the internet by extension for having given us the ability for instant written communication -- is a strong liberator for some people having to deal with lack of social or communication skills. Or so I think. Certainly not for everyone -- and certain social difficulties may remain a problem, like symptoms of withdrawal, or the results of depression, where the internet may actually be not a remedy but a poison. But generally speaking I always felt freer and more relaxed in the way I deal with people over here than I sometimes do out there.

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    That is also why any condescending or patronizing or superior attitude in anything I write, is honestly a communications failure on my part.
    Or a interpretation failure on the other part. We both were involved together in something similar just recently. And after your reply, I looked back at the your post that got a under my skin and I could no longer could see what was that I was complaining about.
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    Man, I've never felt more like a social butterfly O_o

    Nah, I'm awkward too but in a very different way. I'm not afraid to "go there", you know. Gory stuff, sex stuff, I always go too far. I can't help it if I like horror movies like the Human Centipede! I'm gonna talk about those movies, dammit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MutantJohn View Post
    Man, I've never felt more like a social butterfly O_o
    I'm just a social butt. Err... *flies away*

    Quote Originally Posted by Mario F.
    The written word -- and the internet by extension for having given us the ability for instant written communication -- is a strong liberator for some people having to deal with lack of social or communication skills. Or so I think.
    This is true of myself at least.

    There is also the consideration that I only have ever met 2-3 people in real life that pursue the same intellectual goals as me (that's total lifetime count). In fact almost all the people I've ever met just don't seem to have any pursuits at all. It's always a refreshing thing to see people with interests, doubly so when they align with my own.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MutantJohn View Post
    I'm awkward too
    If only I was socially awkward. At least then my deficiencies would be obvious to others.

    I'm quite sociable. I don't like crowds, but that has more to do with the intense distaste I have to observing herd mentality and eusocial behaviour in otherwise sensible, interesting humans. (I do like herd animals like cows and sheep and alpacas, though.)

    I have a pretty good grasp at reading body language and social cues, and seem to be able to draw people out into good conversations. I wouldn't say I'm awkward.

    My deficiencies in social skills are similar to macular degeneration. I have blind spots, and they're darn hard to be aware of. (I'm still trying to discern where they are, not trying to be vague here.) One is that while I can see the nonvocal messages passed among others, I am completely oblivious to when it comes to myself -- both as the recipient, and as the sender. Or perhaps I misread them. (I have a theory about this, and it'd be interesting to verify in real life, but it's hard to find strangers who agree beforehand to be completely honest about social interactions, especially to the other party they interacted with.)

    I am also aware of the recurring theme of having weird disconnects in the subtext in my communications, both spoken and written. The end result is exactly what Mario F. described: the initial reaction is intensely negative, but pinpointing the exact cause of that is difficult to find, and it also seems to dissipate over time.

    It is so bad over the phone, I've completely stopped using Skype, and only call my closest friends and family; with others, I use e-mail or text messages. I do prefer face-to-face discussions, though.

    I have had over a dozen people confide in me, in private, that they hated me on first sight, but after they got to know me, they changed their mind.

    All this makes social interaction extremely exhausting and unsatisfactory for me. It'd be easier if I could just not care.

    Worse thing is, being sociable enough means that even my close family and friends did not initially believe I was serious about having real difficulty in such matters. They just didn't believe I was serious about it, because they observed me to be social enough, even in socially tight spots like public speaking. They thought I was making it up, just seeking attention or pity.

    Which is what I'd bet quite a few people who read this post think, too. Well, you're wrong. I'm only telling all this because I love cutting through the unreliable social crust and societal mores, and getting knee deep into the bloody but honest, true guts of the issue at hand.

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    ... but that has more to do with the intense distaste I have to observing herd mentality and eusocial behaviour in otherwise sensible, interesting humans.
    This part is interesting to me. What do you mean when you say "herd"?

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    You might know that behavior by some other names. It describes when one's peers try to encourage others to do what everyone else is doing. What differs it from peer pressure is that usually in peer pressure, you're encouraged to do something against what your conscience says. Herd mentality can be basically anything. Do this because that's the cool thing now, or we think this is the best thing for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MutantJohn View Post
    This part is interesting to me. What do you mean when you say "herd"?
    Think High School clicks. Also check out Stanford Prison Experiment. Herd mentality is a powerful factor in human behavior. It doesn't always have a negative influence (it enforces both bad and good things arbitrarily). Sometimes, like in the prison experiment there will be a "feedback loop" where a group is isolated and it leads to more extreme behaviors though.

    Despite it not being all bad, I don't see it as a good thing because of the arbitrary nature of the ideas being enforced. You can see this at play with almost all ideologies, nations, clicks, ect. There is always some group of people who isolate themselves from dissenting opinion and before you know it they're drinking the Kool-Aid (a reference to when buying into a groups mentality leads their destruction).
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    Quote Originally Posted by MutantJohn View Post
    This part is interesting to me. What do you mean when you say "herd"?
    The Wikipedia article on herd mentality is pretty descriptive.

    Higher brain functions, like rational thinking, just seems to shut down and people go full auto on hind-brain. No rational thought, just social cues and base instincts. The intelligence of the herd is roughly the intelligence of its stupidest member, divided by the size of the herd.

    Just think about it: people have died because others trampled them to death in their desire to exchange pieces of paper for stuff they don't need, or really want. Only a herd stampedes.

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    It doesn't always have a negative influence
    In my opinion, anything that inhibits rational thought is by definition negative influence. As social animals, social pressure can be a good thing, but it does not necessarily have anything to do with herd mentality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nominal Animal View Post
    In my opinion, anything that inhibits rational thought is by definition negative influence. As social animals, social pressure can be a good thing, but it does not necessarily have anything to do with herd mentality.
    That is sort of my thinking as well. Not that it's morally wrong, just not preferable at least. It reminds me of this question from a philosophy lecture uploaded on YouTube:

    "If you had the choice to be an extremely happy animal, or a moderately discontented human being, which would you be?".

    I mean the animal could be very happy, but without any self awareness, does it really amount to being able to experience things? It seems relevant when asking if it's good to allow instinct to rule our actions/thoughts, so I thought I would pass it along. (Plus thinking about it that was has helped me a few times when feeling bad and stuff ).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alpo View Post
    "If you had the choice to be an extremely happy animal, or a moderately discontented human being, which would you be?".
    A non question, really. Some concepts cannot be addressed in such simplistic terms. It's the type of questions that will always have only wrong answers or a rights answer, depending on how you rock your boat. I usually refuse to get into such... puerilities.

    The fallacy of the question reside on whether we can conjugate an animal with the feeling of happiness, as you well pointed out. This is yet a source of debate (although I would go against your notion that animals don't have self awareness). But there's yet another more fundamental lie in that question; The idea that happiness is something you choose.

    "You can be happy if you really want to", and other variations on the same theme, is about the most insidious lie you can hear and a source of much unhappiness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mario F. View Post
    whether we can conjugate an animal
    What is the complex conjugate of a nominal animal?

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    >> What is the complex conjugate of a nominal animal?
    dESCRETE pLANT?

    gg

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mario F.
    It's the type of questions that will always have only wrong answers or a rights answer, depending on how you rock your boat.
    That is sort of the point, it's a philosophical question. It doesn't have an objective correct answer, just subjective ones.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mario F.
    But there's yet another more fundamental lie in that question; The idea that happiness is something you choose.
    Getting in an argument over this would lead to frustration, I choose not to do so. :P

    Quote Originally Posted by Mario F.
    "You can be happy if you really want to", and other variations on the same theme, is about the most insidious lie you can hear and a source of much unhappiness.
    The most insidious lie? Well again it's sort of subjective, but I can think of several other real life examples of lies off the top of my head that have lead to mass death, genocide, ect.
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