How does the USA currently sees the war in Afghanistan in terms of the international cooperation?

I'm a very critic of EU lack of true commitment to this war (and frankly I'm ashamed), which is in my opinion the most important war in the turn of the century. I fear USA risks loosing this war and yet I'm appalled at the complete absence of news concerning a clear political commitment on behalf of European countries.

It seems to me, despite NATO presence in the field, USA is doing this pretty much alone in the strategic and political playground. I hear of no meeting between states, no formal representation, nothing. Just USA, NATO and a big hot potato that seems is going to blow in Obama's hands and everyone around here will wash theirs of it.