I am a newbie to programming
I have read books, and am following the tutorial hare at cprogramming.

unfortunately I tend to think a little to much on the strict guide lines side when I learn stuff

What I need is someone who knows the C++ language inside and out and can tell me this works like that and there is no other way, or this goes here or there and if you put it here this will happen and if you put it there, that will happen.

I apologize in advance for being to "needy" but I want to work on programms to. Actually I would like to work on games and stuff, and hopefully I will have something to offer this community afterwards.