was me.. anyways, not looking for the sad pity story.. the comment just bugged me, mostly because of the typical attitude behind such comments. shortly put, i've had too much experience with people and that attitude. i'm not saying you have it, as your latest post shows like you don't.. i guess just an insight to my reply above.. so i went off on a tangent, i tend to do that..
and no worries, i don't see it as being snappy towards me.. i understand your ideals of not liking pity stories or not having to write about them.
but, its off topic, so i'll leave it at that..