would like to know how to monitor a lan computer. this is for a neighbor who has a 14 year old doughter that chats on yahoo. they are worried about what she is doing. VNC would be perfect, but, it lets the user know that its running in the background, and they dont wont her to know that they are watching her. there are only two computers, the parents and there daughters, which is connected through internet connection sharing..i think i can use winsocks, but dont know much more than that.i dont even know where to begin on this. any starting help would be appreciated
thanks