View Full Version : How would you handle this?

05-05-2003, 02:01 PM
My girlfriend is in the rescue squad in the town we live in and today one of the squad members died of a heart attack. Shes really upset but i never met the guy so i dont rlly know what to say, i feel like i cant help then theres like guys on the squad that always try and get with her making her feel better cuz they knew the guy and can relate.

windoze victim
05-05-2003, 02:07 PM
Ahhh, I can't even seem to help girls who are just crying over a little thing, except by quietly standing by them. Thats my advice, just stand there and be there if she needs you.

05-05-2003, 02:31 PM
I agree. Be there for her. I don't know what to say in that situation either. But if she needs you, just be there for her.

05-05-2003, 02:48 PM
Yea shes out with rescue ppl im just waiting for her to call me cuz nothing i can do till she needs me. Im not worried bout those guys just wish i could relate. She knows i love her and she loves me, guess jus give her room.