Tradition has it that male is default because women were considered lower beings than men, which obviously we will all agree now is wrong.
It just seems to me you are unwilling to change to a new view in a new century which is much different from when tradition was made?
Is it so, or am I completely off track?
I can accept good arguments, but never from religion. That's because you can't force a religious belief onto someone else. Religion is not facts. There is no evidence. And as such I cannot accept it a good argument.
And that is all.