Sounds like you're taking my comments well. Thanks for not freaking out.
I pretty much haven't commented (and don't plan to) on how the design of your website might be changed. It's clear that the design is how you want it to be and I don't presume you want to become a large corporation. All I'll say is that you should really give some thought to how you represent yourself to potential customers on your website. Even if all of your customers are your neighbors and family friends, you should never want to emit a feeling of unprofessionalism or a lack of expertise (again, I'm not talking about the design, but your language). Just keep that in mind. It will help succeed in this and all your ventures.