Should I go to a state college and be 20k in debt, or a private college and be 90k in debt.

I'm currently in a community college(I hate it, and feel like a nerd because I'm one of the few people that studies, goes to the library, and participates in class).

Anyways, I'm transferring to another college in the spring.

I currently have the option of going to-
-Bentley(38k a year)
-Northeastern(29k a year)
-UMass- Lowell(9K a year)

Umass- Lowell isn't a great school, but I'm not too worried about getting the best education I can(I try so I don't feel there's anything to worry about).

Anyways, since my parents are only paying for a percentage of my tuition, I was wondering what everyone's say is about me going to either a private college(and being 90k in debt), or a public college(and being about 20k in debt).

I'm probably going to go to a private college. But I'm still considering a public institution.