<if he shares my beliefs, then even if he's had sex in the past he'll agree it was a mistake and I can forgive him for that. But this thread's not about religion or my own beliefs, so that's all I'll say on the matter! I'll let you all go back to discussing strawberries>

Here we go again

He will agree it was a mistake? More likeley he thought Whoo Hooo at the time.

I see where you are coming from though-religous beliefs etc. Although shouldnt he have been forgiven by god if he repents?

Lastly, is it not up to god to forgive him, and not you as you wrote