A very weird poll

**Cheeze-It** · 07-20-2003

Originally posted by nvoigt

How about looking at the facts in another way: She has been with two guys. She had sex with them. She's not with #1 right now. She's not with #2 right now. She's with you. What does that tell you ?

That she's looking for another victim?

**nvoigt** · 07-20-2003

That she's looking for another victim?

Well, if being the victim of a sexy woman is the worst case scenario...

How about asking the other guys ? How did she break up with them ? Were they even in a relationship ?

**Clyde** · 07-20-2003

No, that's gross. Don't even bother with her. You're young, which
probably means she's young (unless you're wierd) -- two men, at
18, is a lot.

Uh..... which century do you live in?

**Cheeze-It** · 07-20-2003

Originally posted by Clyde
Uh..... which century do you live in?

A time where humans have evolved to a point where they're
capable of controlling their urges and not acting out on the most
animalistic of insticts. I'm far ahead of your time... I'm not a
primate, I don't act like one; I don't sleep around, and I use
a spork when I eat.

The future is here (not there, where you are. But here, where I,
and only I am).

**Clyde** · 07-20-2003

A time where humans have evolved to a point where they're
capable of controlling their urges and not acting out on the most
animalistic of insticts.

So a few hundred years in the past then? - The Victorian era comes to mind.

I'm not a primate, I don't act like one; I don't sleep around, and I use a spork when I eat.

You are a primate, you do act like one, and theres no such thing as a "snork".

Anyhow, it seems fairly pointless to fight instinct for the sake of fighting instinct.

**kristy** · 07-20-2003

Originally posted by TechWins
If you love her, then that's all that should matter.

I believe this is very true. If you love someone, you love them for what they are - not what you wish they were. If you can't handle that she has slept with guys before you, then perhaps she isn't the right for you, or you aren't the right for her (no offence). But at least you should give her a chance.

**vasanth** · 07-20-2003

would not like to coment on the issue... But here you will see that most of the Guys and gals r virgins till marriage..

**lightatdawn** · 07-20-2003

How about looking at the facts in another way: She has been with two guys. She had sex with them. She's not with #1 right now. She's not with #2 right now. She's with you. What does that tell you ?

Even if she has more experience than you... well, that's not so bad, put it to some good use

nvoigt takes the words straight from my mouth. Just look at it this way: If she'd never been with anyone before, she'd never know how good shes got it now.

Oh, and making a big deal out of things one cant change is a sure-fire way to break up. Would you want someone taking issue with someing in your past, you obviously cant change, and may not even be proud of?

Remember; That was before. This is now. Where would you rather be living?

And P.S. ethic: Not to bloat your ego or anything, but you're deadpan dry wit gives the GD half its flavour (which is a lot like slightly sour strawberry milk).

Peace out

**incognito** · 07-20-2003

Well this one guy, she says he brainwashed him (to whom she lost her viginity to), and with her first boyfriend, they were together for 4 years and never had sex.

**gcn_zelda** · 07-20-2003

What century do you live in?

At least he knows what morality is.

**correlcj** · 07-20-2003

Hey man! As long as she didn't cheat on you and you don't know them personally I say have some fun. My golden rule is wait for marriage minimum 2/3 years, hell this is someone you plan to live with the rest of your life right, so whats a few years. Getting married is easy the devorce is whats hard, man. Your in the honeymoon phase which after marriage declines anyways so 1) date a long time and get to know her even sexually you know unless your a virgin and wanna wait thats cool too. 2) Live with her a minimum of 1 year, its tough living with women at times and they get frustrated with you alot which means no sex, lol. 3) then get in gaged and plz dont rush anything that way you can break it off anytime without remorse between you too.
"To live without never being in love is no life at all" . Besides if this bother s you talk to her about it, dont keep sh$t bottled inside, not like it matters anyways since she had sex 2 times anyways but remember it was b 4 you. She didnt know you existed plus women are different. Men its just sex they put thier hearts and emotions in sex so she really had deep emotions for these guys but fortunate for you it didnt last and she wants to be with YOU! Maybe your more of a man than they were anyways, once again talk about it and tell her you feel awkward about it, then have some make up sex and live your lifes as if they were your last. Oh yeah, someone said something about the perfect girl or model women remark. He/shes right "NO SUCH ANIMAL!" besides ive seen hot woman who id like to roll in the hey with but their personalities sucked. Major turn off for me so any girls like that here remember to treat your guy right and it will come back unto you 10 fold.
PEACE OUT!

BTW...I voted YES and if you love her you would also.

**Clyde** · 07-20-2003

At least he knows what morality is

...What?

**Fountain** · 07-20-2003

She has slept with two guys. Wow.

It really really should not matter to you or your obvious EGO.

Get over it and get on with it. As long as they dont mention history you will be very happy. And lets face it, the first steps down the path to sexual happiness dont come from a few quick rolls in the hay with two guys. Experience is everything.

She may have hated every minute of the previous experiences. Sex is good, making love is out of this world. Go for it. If you love her and she falls for you....oooh baby!

**gcn_zelda** · 07-20-2003

...What?

The quality of being in accord with standards of right or good conduct.

Having sex outside of marriage is not exactly up to standards...

**RoD** · 07-20-2003

Obviously im not going to read through all of these but heres my input as i feel it valid.

I have been seeing Stef for a while, and were really close, in love blah blah. Well she was with two people before me and it doesnt really bother me. One was a mistake, one night stand, and one was a long time boyfriend, her first.

When we hooked up i was still a virgin so obviously i was nervous and stuff but we are fine. Shes happy, im happy, its no big deal for me.

So would i marry her? Absolutely, life is too short. Also look at it this way. So you hook up with some virgin, and u guys get all serious then you guys do it. Now shes hooked and wants to see other people to see if it is better on the other side.....

No thanks, i vote yes.

Having sex outside of marriage is not exactly up to standards

Thats a really lame statement. Sex outside of marrige IS the standard in my opinion. Would we be here today if our ancestors, such as cavemen, insisted on marrige before reproduction? No. Nature holds no standard for sex except that its ok to do it. Marrige is something man himself invented, and is not a standard but rather a choice some make. A choice that should i not make doesnt put me outside the standard, but into the norm where we all used to be.