"i listened to musharraf's speech. he sounds willing to make peace. he also seems to be the oppressed rather than the oppressor."
Yea Musharraf seems to be a good guy. Apparently Pakistan is willing to back Kashmiri independance, that seems the best option.
I must say that from what I can see Pakistan seems to be the more sympathetic of the two.
Kasmir should have been part of Pakistan to begin with, and it's not like India hasn't got enough land already! Also Pakistan are terrified of giving the Kashmiri terratory they currently posess over to India because Pakistan's entire water supply goes through Kashmir, last time India was in control of it they shut it off!
A refferendum for independance is the most obvious solution to the conflict.