Using MF_GRAYED

Im using MF_GRAYED for my menu, but I dont know how to make it ungrayed. can someone help, thank you. :-)

nevermind i got it, i guess my problem is, my commands dont work

Heres my code, my commands wont work:

Code:

case ID_FILE_CONNECT:



           EnableMenuItem(hMenu,ID_FILE_CONNECT,MF_DISABLED);
	       EnableMenuItem(hMenu,ID_FILE_CONNECT,MF_GRAYED);
           EnableMenuItem(hMenu,ID_FILE_DISCONNECT,MF_ENABLED);
	


		break;

		case ID_FILE_DISCONNECT:

			  EnableMenuItem(hMenu,ID_FILE_DISCONNECT,MF_DISABLED);
	          EnableMenuItem(hMenu,ID_FILE_DISCONNECT,MF_GRAYED);
              EnableMenuItem(hMenu,ID_FILE_CONNECT,MF_ENABLED);


		break;

however, nothing works. connect is set to disabled since we connect first, so disconnect is enabled. but when i click disconnect, nothing happens, everything stays the same when in reality disconnect should then become disabled and connect enabled.

nevermind i got it :-)