MySQL Connect from Outside Computer

Here is my code:

Code:

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        case IDC_GET:
                                        MYSQL *pConnection;
                                        MYSQL_RES *pResult;  //pointer to the result set structure
                                        MYSQL_ROW Row;
                                        pConnection = mysql_init(NULL);
                                        SendDlgItemMessage(hwnd, IDC_SHOWCOUNT, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)TEXT("Attempting to Connect to Database...."));
                                        //SendDlgItemMessage(hwnd, IDC_LIST, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)TEXT("Attempting to Connect to"));
                                        //SendDlgItemMessage(hwnd, IDC_LIST, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)TEXT("Database......."));
                                        mysql_real_connect(pConnection, "localhost", "username","password","database",0,NULL,0);
                                    SetDlgItemText(hwnd, IDC_SHOWCOUNT, "Attempting To Connect To Database....");
                                        mysql_query(pConnection,"SELECT * FROM products order by itemN"); //query the database
                                        pResult = mysql_store_result(pConnection);
                                        TCHAR szBuffer[50];
                                        wsprintf (szBuffer, TEXT ("%d"), mysql_num_rows (pResult));
                                        SetDlgItemText(hwnd, IDC_SHOWCOUNT, "Connected....Please Wait!");
                                       
                                        while ((Row = mysql_fetch_row(pResult)))
                                                {
                                                TCHAR szProducts[100];
                                                wsprintf(szProducts, "%s.....%s.....%s.....%s....%s", Row[1], Row[4], Row[5], Row[7], Row[9]);
                                                SendDlgItemMessage (hwnd, IDC_LIST, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)szProducts);
                                                }
                                        SendDlgItemMessage(hwnd, IDC_LIST, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)TEXT("Total # of Products In Database:"));
                                        SendDlgItemMessage (hwnd, IDC_LIST, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)szBuffer);


                                        //printf("\n\nThe Number Of products in the database: %d\n\n",mysql_num_rows(pResult));
                                        SendDlgItemMessage(hwnd, IDC_LIST, LB_ADDSTRING, 0, (LPARAM)TEXT("______________________"));
                                        SetDlgItemText(hwnd, IDC_SHOWCOUNT, "Done");
                                        mysql_free_result(pResult);
                                break;

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Here's what I'm trying to do:

I have a MySQL database that resides on one computer and I want to connect to it from another workstation using TCP but I don't have MyODBC setup because I'm not sure if that's what I need and I don't know what all I have to have in order to do it or where to start.

If it's as simple as specifying a port number please show me how.

Here was my only guess:

mysql_real_connect(pConnection, "http://192.168.0.2:3306", "username","password","database",0,NULL,0);

But that didn't work.

Thanks for the help ahead of time