Window menu question

Hi,
it seems that MDI applications made using MSVS .NET 2003 puts the name of all the child windows under the Window menu so that you can switch between different child windows.

I was wondering if it could be set to work differently. I checked that by first changing the name of the menu and it worked but if I actually move the Window menu from being the 3rd from the file menu (File View Window Help) to being the 2nd (File Window View Help), then the program would not put the name of the child windows in there anymore. Therefore it seems that the program locates the menu using an index of some sort.

My question is can I force the program to put the names of the child windows in the second menu instead of the third.

This is key to my project and I would really appreciate some insight into this. Thank you
Amish