Let's say we have a ball and a hole. The ball is slightly larger than the hole, so it won't fit.
Now we throw the ball at an enormous speed direclty towards the hole. What happens?
(i) (From a person standing beside the hole's POV)
The ball is slightly smaller than the hole and will pass through.
(ii) (From a person standing on the ball's POV)
The hole is much smaller than the ball, so it'll crash when it arrives.
What will happen?