Actually what it means is that he was going faster than you. The slower car gets the brunt of the damage. But he is a full frame vehicle and your uni-body puddle jumper is no match for that. Good illustration of why they want to force truck and SUV manufacterers to make sure the bumpers on the beasts line up with car bumpers. Look how far up the truck went into the car. The bumpers did not meet and if you were going faster, you would've been wearing his Ford emblem on your forehead. Your bumper didn't do anything but get squashed under his vehicle. The truck hit you right in the soft spot where the radiator is. There is nothing to stop him from slamming right into the passenger compartment save for your engine block which is probably what did stop him.
And that's not a fender bender - that's trashed/totaled/kaputt.