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    A very weird poll

    Well, I have this girlfriend see....she well... her past, well she's slept with like two men already. I am confused about this, I have mixed feelings about it, at least she's being honest with me. I think that I might be falling for her, then I start thinking about our future, oh yeah I should remind you guys that this girl seems to be madly in love with me, and I am getting there. But yes she's not a virgin, I for one always said this would not be a problem with me and a girl, but now that I am facing the music I don't know what to make of it. Would you marry a girl that's not a virgin? I mean if you fell (sp?damnit I can't believe I can't spell that word, or is it right?) in love with her. How can you get over the fact that she's slept with other men before you.....? I need advice people.


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    If you love her, then that's all that should matter. Also, her having only slept with two other men shouldn't be much of a big deal. Not many people stay virgins until their marriage nowadays, so her having slept with two men shouldn't even be much of a factor. You're not going to find the perfect girl, so settle for the next best thing, the girl you love, even though, she has been with two other guys.

    Btw, imo, if you're even remotely considering not to fall for her, b/c she has slept with the two other men then you are surely not in love with her.


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    Originally posted by TechWins
    If you love her, then that's all that should matter. Also, her having only slept with two other men shouldn't be much of a big deal. Not many people stay virgins until their marriage nowadays, so her having slept with two men shouldn't even be much of a factor. You're not going to find the perfect girl, so settle for the next best thing, the girl you love, even though, she has been with two other guys.

    Btw, imo, if you're even remotely considering not to fall for her, b/c she has slept with the two other men then you are surely not in love with her.


    Well I am not entirely in love with her, and I am not planning on marriage, but it's just that, when I have a girlfriend usually, I tend to think that we might have a chance of marriage like 8 years from now. Not just a girl that we have not future together. I know, I have issues.............I need of a way to try and get over them.
    There are some real morons in this world please do not become one of them, do not become a victim of moronitis. PROGRAMMING IS THE FUTURE...THE FUTURE IS NOW!!!!!!!!!

    "...The only real game I thank in the world is baseball..." --Babe Ruth

    "Life is beautiful"-Don Corleone right before he died.

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    IMO, I think you should just stay with her and see how it goes, if the relationship is good for the both of you within a few years, then perhaps you should pop the question.

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    Originally posted by Notly
    IMO, I think you should just stay with her and see how it goes, if the relationship is good for the both of you within a few years, then perhaps you should pop the question.

    Nah, I need to make up my mind before I REALLY fall for her even more.
    There are some real morons in this world please do not become one of them, do not become a victim of moronitis. PROGRAMMING IS THE FUTURE...THE FUTURE IS NOW!!!!!!!!!

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    Nope...stone her to death I say.......just like in the good old days...

    Seriously though......does it really matter to you? If so, then I dont think you are at the right stage to even consider marriage.....anyway...what the hell are you doing considering marriage at your age.....live a little

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    Nope...stone her to death I say.......just like in the good old days...
    meh

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    Originally posted by Fordy
    Nope...stone her to death I say.......just like in the good old days...

    Seriously though......does it really matter to you? If so, then I dont think you are at the right stage to even consider marriage.....anyway...what the hell are you doing considering marriage at your age.....live a little
    Nah marriage for me it's at age 29 (at least I hope), and now I am 18, but I just got to thinking.
    There are some real morons in this world please do not become one of them, do not become a victim of moronitis. PROGRAMMING IS THE FUTURE...THE FUTURE IS NOW!!!!!!!!!

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    are you in college yet? You should worry about marriage sometime after college. It'll make college easier.

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    Way back when, in 1950 or so, there was an old American cultural value that required women to remain virgins until marriage but did not put as much emphasis on men to remain virgins. Then came the 1960's, and many people decided sex was a good thing after all. Now you probably won't even find too many virgins in Christian youth groups and things like that.

    I think you should think about the woman and not the woman's sexual history. You'll probably decide not to marry her for some other reason, maybe because she snores.

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    You'll probably decide not to marry her for some other reason, maybe because she snores.
    or if she wets the bed :P

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    Unregd, there are more virgins than most people think.
    Away.

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    No, that's gross. Don't even bother with her. You're young, which
    probably means she's young (unless you're wierd) -- two men, at
    18, is a lot.

    If you love her, then that's all that should matter. Also, her having only slept with two other men shouldn't be much of a big deal. Not many people stay virgins until their marriage nowadays, so her having slept with two men shouldn't even be much of a factor. You're not going to find the perfect girl, so settle for the next best thing, the girl you love, even though, she has been with two other guys.
    Don't listen to any of this. The fact that she's only 18 (or close to)
    and has already been with two (that she's telling you about) men
    is just indicative of the type of person she is: either a self-indulging,
    primative, monkey-skank that never thinks about the potential
    consequences of her actions, or someone who is so emotionally
    screwed up that she believes the only way to get a guy to love
    her is to sleep with him. If you really want to be with someone
    like that, then... whatever.

    Nevermind. Go ahead and listen to some free-love hippies talk
    about how much of a non-issue sex is. But at least keep in mind
    that these woodstockers are probably doped up on LSD and
    think they're having a conversation with a banana. Are you a
    banana?
    Staying away from General.

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    I would marry a girl who isn't a virgin, sure. In fact, I WOULDN'T marry a girl who is a virgin (I wouldn't marry someone I hadn't had sex with, what if the sex is terrible?).
    Thor's self help tip:
    Maybe a neighbor is tossing leaf clippings on your lawn, looking at your woman, or harboring desires regarding your longboat. You enslave his children, set his house on fire. He shall not bother you again.

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    When I first read your post I thought it was sarcasm. But you seem to take it serious, so I'll post a serious answer...

    Would you marry a girl that's not a virgin?
    Neither am I, so why not ?

    there are more virgins than most people think.
    That's right... I always read statistics saying people have sex earlier, like with 15... jeez... if this is true, I must be responsible for at least three pervert child molesters for averaging out my age in this statistic.

    How about looking at the facts in another way: She has been with two guys. She had sex with them. She's not with #1 right now. She's not with #2 right now. She's with you. What does that tell you ?

    Even if she has more experience than you... well, that's not so bad, put it to some good use
    hth
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