In my opinion, if men can be forced by their government to go off and fight and die for a cause, possibly an unworthy and wrong cause (e.g., the Vietnam War), in the interest of fairness and equality, the other 51% of the population should have that duty as well. Better than that would be to eliminate the draft completely and make the military all volunteer forever. Men, women, homosexual people, and almost anyone else mentally capable should be able to defend their nation if they want to do that.
The thing about feminism is that if the female professors (Women's Studies) who are at the center of feminist doctrine do not come up with off-the-wall ideas that get them into the news they might find students taking something else and therefore lose their jobs, I guess. I am not offended if a woman is attracted to me; but, if a woman or man finds being called something or being looked at in a certain suggestive way offensive, other people have an obligation to respect their wishes within reasonable limits. Many of the most vocal feminists occassionally make unrealistic and sometimes bigoted demands, and no one should feel obligated to respect those fantasies.