>"So you think you've got me figured out
studied every detail
now you know me inside and out
but do you see me as I am or as you want me to be
do you"-Enchant<

agreed... even when we make really sure so much as can be that we know what we are doing with someone, it may just all end up in your head, you try to stay objective but you might suppose that in trying so hard you end up putting too much effort into it anyway... so we'll see what happens...