Thread: I've never had a girlfriend ever in my life

Never!! Not even a female friend. I'm too ugly to get female friends. No one likes/loves me in real life. Thats why I'm such a hateful person. The way we were raise make us who we are.

Thats why I'm such a hateful person. The way we were raise make us who we are.

You are so full of crap. That "Oprah, my mom doesn't love me" crap.

You want to know something, GB? My dad was an alcoholic, chain-smoker who beat me with a 2x4 when I was 12. And what did that make me turn out to be? A father who loves his children and cherishes every moment I have with them. I don't drink. I don't smoke. Child abuse is not hereditary. Alcoholism is not heredity. You are a weak person who refuses to take responsibilty for your own actions.

"I am the way I am because my mamma made me this way..." Wah! Whatever.

Because my father was scum I chose to be the best father I could be. I refuse to treat my children the way he treated me. His poor fathering made me realize how special my kids are to me. Your mentality is a weak scapegoate one.

You are so full of crap. That "Oprah, my mom doesn't love me" crap.

You want to know something, GB? My dad was an alcoholic, chain-smoker who beat me with a 2x4 when I was 12. And what did that make me turn out to be? A father who loves his children and cherishes every moment I have with them. I don't drink. I don't smoke. Child abuse is not hereditary. Alcoholism is not heredity. You are a weak person who refuses to take responsibilty for your own actions.

"I am the way I am because my mamma made me this way..." Wah! Whatever.

Because my father was scum I chose to be the best father I could be. I refuse to treat my children the way he treated me. His poor fathering made me realize how special my kids are to me. Your mentality is a weak scapegoate one.

Sorry, but I have to. Powerful words man. Sincerely, I respect your strength. I look up to and respect people like you. Everybody else who replied to the thread starter also. All mindsets you must have or else you will bring and drag yourself down slowly. Ever heard of the downward spiral? That attitude is one of it's many starting points. I know, I almost fell for it...

I was going to delete this thread but then I read jdingers post. My friend, a statement as perfectly stated as that is rare and far between. I elected to close this thread and remove the other posts so that people can see what you've said. Take it to heart people. I recognise words of wisdom when I see them.